On A Good Day

Well is it 2009 now, and what a great start to the new year!
I'm sitting here with horrid sunburn on my back, from 1 hour in the pool at 10am this morning..
Love Australian weather.. Haha..


Anyway, I was sitting here thinking back on the last year..
Thinking about all the new people I have met, the new experiences, the new things, the fun times and the sad times..

My new car, which has been smashed for a month now thank to a Kangaroo..
My new goals and ambitions, some revisted (like toning up!), and some dropped..

Over this last year I have experienced a lot, come to many realisations and encountered so many up's and down's..

Sure, some won't even come close to what you or others may have encounterd, but still, to me, they were big points to my year..

You live, you learn though.

Through this year I have had fights with people, had people say stuff behind my back, and I've said stuff behind theirs.. We all have our reasons, but at the end of the day, we only say this stuff because we care about that person or the situation.. If we didn't care, why would we even bother to say things?

Sure it isn't much justification to do so, but we do it, everyone does it.. It is just a part of life.. It will always be around us, and if we don't learn to live with it and deal with it, we'll just crumble..

Anyway, last night I had a sort of 'rekindling' moment with somebody I once cared so much about, we had a big falling out, and it lasted for a while until last night.. Afterwards, it made me think of all the wasted time we had because of the position both of us were in..

We may be close once again, we may not be, but atleast we made a move to make things better than they were.. Hopefully from now on, things won't be so hard or awkward if one of us are mentioned or around each other..

Thank you for that.


One of my new years resolutions for 2009 is to not care about the past.

There have been falling outs, drifting apart and me standing back from people because of things that have happened in their lives and impacted on mine.. Be it a big fight with other friends affecting my position with both, or whatever.

I'm resetting everybody who has drifted, walked away, or had problems with me (or vice versa) to Zero. They're all sitting at the same level on 0 now..

I'll be pleasant and peaceful with them, have fun or whatever if they'll let me.. But if they don't put in any effort with our relationship, they'll stay at 0 or I just won't bother..

If they're willing to put in effort along with me, things will be better once again :)


I have lots of people around me which I still love deeply, and they reciprocate (atleast I hope they do!!) so if these others don't bother, I don't feel at loss. As they obviously don't either!


You may call me skeptical when it comes to people these days, call it a defence mechanism, as it has got me numerous times.. I have people telling me alot that I care too much, well, times are changing, and I feel great..

I feel 2009 has brought me a great big fresh feeling.. A time for more greatness, and new things :)


I'm really looking forward to pushing friendships in to being alot stronger than they are.. I'm really looking forward to meeting all those new people I'm going to meet.. All the new experiences, and using my new knowledge from 2008 to make 2009 that much greater!


When I crashed my car avoiding a Kangaroo, I was so distraught.. But through this unfortunate event, I have seen lightness within so many people I literally didn't even know until that time..

People in clubs giving me their support, helping me find stuff I need.. Supporting me in this unfortunate situation.

My friends all constantly offering a hand, checking up on it and everything.. It's great!

Here are a couple of pics (Click to enlarge):



Life is really looking up :)

Here's to a great new year!